🎭 The Art of Reset:

How Nutritional Discipline Fuels Creative and Emotional Resilience

There’s a phrase we hear often as performers: “Leave it all on the stage.” But what happens when the stage is closed, the scripts stop coming, and life throws you a global pandemic, a relationship rut, or just too many frozen pizzas?

You reset.

Recently, my husband Stephen and I completed our second round of Whole30—an intentionally structured 30-day nutritional “reset.” No sugar, no alcohol, no dairy, no grains, no legumes. Just whole, unprocessed food that makes your body work better, not harder.

It may sound like a diet, but for us, it became a creative experiment in discipline, a relationship checkpoint, and most surprisingly—a spiritual recalibration.

And I want to talk about that, because we rarely frame food and self-discipline as tools for artistic and emotional growth. But we should.

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🎨 Creativity Doesn’t Thrive in Chaos

As artists, we’re told to embrace the mess, to feel everything. And yes—messy can be beautiful. But when our physical bodies are overwhelmed, inflamed, and sugar-spiked, our creative instincts don’t get louder… they shut down.

During our first Whole30, I lost over ten pounds. But more importantly, I gained hours of energy back. My brain fog lifted. My sleep deepened. My anxiety quieted just enough for me to dream again.

Creativity requires space—not just in your calendar, but in your body.
Your gut and your brain? They’re pen pals. When your digestive system is in survival mode, your nervous system follows. That monologue you’re trying to memorize? That email pitch you’re procrastinating? That screenplay you haven’t started? Those aren’t time problems. They’re energy problems. And energy starts on your plate.

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🛑 Sugar Crashes vs. Creative Blocks

I used to think my midday slumps were “creative blocks.” Nope. Turns out they were blood sugar crashes.

We were living in Charleston when our habits started to really deteriorate—both of us working multiple jobs, often eating in the car between rehearsals and side gigs. Fast food, Sonic burgers (don’t judge), and frozen meals became our norm. The convenience was addicting. But so were the consequences: fatigue, mood swings, bloat, and brain fog that no coffee could clear.

When we decided to return to Whole30 in the middle of the pandemic, it wasn’t about getting “fit.” It was about reclaiming a sense of control, of rhythm, of presence in our lives—and in our art.

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🧠 Self-Discipline Is Self-Trust

There’s something revolutionary about saying: I’m not going to numb myself with food right now.

And for creatives—especially LGBTQ+ creatives—this is big.

Many of us grew up learning to suppress parts of ourselves to survive. That shows up later in life as overworking, over-pleasing, or overeating. The truth is, sugar isn’t just a comfort food—it’s a coping mechanism. So is fast food. So is alcohol. These things aren't inherently evil, but when they're our go-to salves, it’s worth asking: What am I avoiding feeling?

Whole30 forced me to slow down. To prep meals. To read ingredient labels. To say “no” with intention.

That “no” built muscle—mental muscle.
That muscle became self-trust.
And self-trust is the cornerstone of creative freedom.